Does fear and not knowing what to say or how to handle something stall you out from parenting your teenager around sexuality issues? You’re not the only one.
Over 36 years, parents have called, emailed, texted, Facebooked, and waited for Shelly after meetings to share their fears. (listed below) If you struggle with these issues or something similar and want support, Shelly can help you!
- I am not equipped with the skills, words, statistics, or stories to have a sex talk with my teen.
- I have guilt from my own past behavior – I feel like a hypocrite – “How can I tell my kid to wait when I didn’t wait?”
- I cave into the culture’s contraceptive mentality because “Everybody’s doing it and they might as well be safe.”
- My parents never talked to me about sex – I don’t know how to do it.
- My child’s too young and what if I open Pandora’s Box by talking about sex too soon?
- I was sexually abused as a child and I don’t want to talk about sex.
- My teen’s already crossed the line – it’s too late for them.
- I am a poor role model – I lack sexual self-control myself – i.e. I use pornography, I read romance novels, I watch daytime dramas, I am a womanizer, I’m a single Mom pursuing men, I tell sexual jokes, I watch sexually explicit videos..
- I’m afraid to talk about sex because it’ll make my teen curious and they’ll go out and “do it.”
- I do not have a healthy relationship with my teen and/or healthy communication skills to have “the talk.”
- I haven’t forgiven myself for my past sexual sin.
- I haven’t forgiven my teen for their past sexual sin.
- I don’t have sexual information/knowledge as a basis to talk about puberty, masturbation, menstruation, male/female anatomy, relationship skills, dating, pregnancy, STD/HIV, refusal skills, etc.
- I don’t know what God says about waiting till marriage and why.
- I don’t know how to be an intentional parent and help my teen forecast a healthy sexual future.
- I don’t monitor my teen’s use of technology – cell phone, Internet, iPad, TV, videos, music, etc.
- My teen is 18 and they’re an adult – I can’t do anything about it now.
If your daughter’s appearance, attitude and apparel has changed –
TALL Truth Coaching is for you.
If your son is sneaking peaks at Miss September –
TALL Truth Coaching is for you.
If you want to parent your kids to follow God’s plan and delay sex until they get married but don’t know how to do it –
TALL Truth Coaching is for you.
If you want confidence to know how and when to have a sex talk –
TALL Truth Coaching is for you.
If you’re struggling with conflicting philosophical thoughts of what message is best – abstinence or safe sex –
TALL Truth Coaching is for you.
If you need parenting tools that work –
TALL Truth Coaching is for you.
If you want to know how to help your teen after they’ve goofed up –
TALL Truth Coaching is for you.
If you grew up with parents that didn’t talk about sexuality in a healthy way or didn’t talk about sex at all –
TALL Truth Coaching is for you.
If you’re thinking, “How do I tell my kids to wait when I didn’t wait, they’ll think I’m a hypocrite –
TALL Truth Coaching is for you.
If you want your kids to reach their hopes and dreams for their future and their destiny in Christ –
TALL Truth Coaching is for you!
God’s plan for your kids is purity before marriage. The devil’s plan is death and destruction of their hopes and dreams.
As parents, our job is to educate, encourage, empower and equip our teens to raise the bar of sexual self-control – contact Shelly now to schedule your TALL Truth Coaching appointment, 720-935-1617 or leave a message on this webpage and Shelly will contact you directly.
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